April 01, 2009

Are We Really Meant to Have It?

I was reading Julie Ackerman in Our Daily Bread When my family and I lived in Wisconsin, we had bird feeders outside every window. It was always so cool to look out on the white snow and see bright gold and black Evening Grossbeaks covering the ground and on our feeders. It was the serenity and tJ0262585 he   beauty that got me. Peaceful. But there was an evil preditor that was constantly lurking in the shadows - wanting what was not meant for him. We had a squirrel that was hell-bent on getting into those 'bird' feeders. He tried coming at that feeder from every direction but without success. He would race up the pole, so we put grease on it. He would run up from the ground and ramp off our house to get to it. But alas, no dice. Finally we put an upside down cone on the metal pole and he became discouraged and went back to the wonderful corn cobs we had out for him in the first place.

The squirrel's tireless attempts to get what isn't meant to be his calls to mind our own natural passions and talents. We've been gifted areas in which we excel and we many times go away from that into something someone else thinks we should be in. In our coaching class, Patricia Drain talkeds about the Stone Theory, where you cast a stone into a very calm, placid lake and the ripples go out from there. The ripples are the things that happen when life comes at us - going to school, getting married, having kids, buying a house and on and on. We get far away from our true center-our core. Sometimes we look at others and think, "I can do that-it looks like fun. It brings in alot of money." If you aren't living your passion, if you aren't happy in your current space, then now is the time find those ingredients that will make you happy and pursue them. This is your second chance! Turn away from trying to get up that birdfeeder where you aren't meant to be.

There is hope. There are many people out there that can help you, whether a mentor or a coach - now is the time to re-evaluate and get back to your basics. In the book, "Laid Off? Don't Stress! How to Get From Mad to Glad." you will find inspirational stories of people from various walks of life who have made successful transitions from unexpected AND expected situations. By reading about how others have manifested their new life, it inspires you to be more creative to move on or to simply add sidelines that will fill those core passions. I've recently become a Certified Career Coach, "What Should I Be When I Grow Up, Now That I'm 40, 50, & 60." You see, sometimes when we come up against unexpected difficulties, i.e. laid off, divorce, illness, death of a loved one, retirement - any of those can put you in limbo. You lose your direction and your purpose, so you have to re-evaluate and move forward. It's exciting when you have clarity and have focus and that is where a coach or mentor comes in real handy.  Just like the squirrel, you have your own special feeding ground. Just for you.

February 07, 2009

Wading Through Life's Changes

Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction. I just heard that one on the following   Joy Movie. http://thejoymovie.com As I was reading the words and watching the most wonderful pictures, I realized that I truly believed of what was shown there.

"Nothing happens but first a dream by Carl Sandberg," I'm speaking to a group this week and my premice is that in order to make a difference in the world you must learn to live your dream or your passion. In this day and age, so many of us are living someone elses dream. Your parents told you that you must be an engineer, but you always wanted to be an artist. Might it be possible to be an engineer and still be an artist in order to fulfill that part of your life? Many of us have been pushed out of our nest (I was laid off three times) before we took a hard cold look at who we are and why we are doing what we are doing. We are forced to look. Isn't that when we get things done? Take a look at your dream today! Write it down. It really doesn't matter whether you know how you'll attain it, just write it down. Your own mind works wonders.

Look at yourself in the mirror? What do you see? Do you accept and love that person. I believe that we must learn to love ourselves, yes, even when we feel rejected perhaps in a lay off or in a divorce or any number of life's changes. If you learn to love ourself "anyway" you can really make a difference in your life and those around you. Remember, when you get on a plane, you are asked to put the oxygen on yourself first and then you can help those around you?. There's a wonderful motivational speaker, Nick Vujicic, who has no arms and no legs, yet inspires others. He empowers others to be the best person they can be. He credits God as the one who has enabled him to be love, to show love and to accept himself and what life has thrown at him. Can you do the same? Wes Hopper at http://www.dailygratitude.com   inspiresd us to stay in the thankfulness mode - write down things that you have in your life that you are grateful for.

"Laughter is an Instant Vacation," says Milton Berle. When we learn to take life a little lighter, we will make such a difference in our lives (benefits:more blood in our veins, body pain killers-endorphins, lots of smiling,etc) and in the lives of those around you. You are contageous when you are smiling and when you are laughing. Get this, you don't even have to have something to laugh at in order to get those benefits - fake it until you make it. Studies have shown that you just have to anticipate a joyous event or you just have to be around happy people. That's quite a gift, isn't it? Take that instant vacation by laughing as you take your morning constitutional today:-)

So wading through life's changes will be much easier if you take a look at your dream, accept what God has created in you and put a smile on your face - Make a Difference Today!

December 29, 2008

The Sun is Still Under These Clouds

Can you believe it? It is pouring down buckets in Arizona this morning and has been for the past couple of days. It always surprises me, but I  know I'd  rather live in the sun. Wouldn't you? These days it seems like there are a lot of clouds-economy on a continuous daily roller coaster, people being laid off, holidays are here and we are still in racing mode, end of the year and all the fiscal stuff has to be don. This is even a time when we eat too much and are not focusing on taking care of ourselves. So we are out of control, right? We always think we can control everything, but really we can only control ourselves. I learned that in a twelve step program years ago, but I keep forgetting. So what can we control, here are five things that I'd like to share with you today.

1.  You Can Control Your Daily Routine. One of the things I learned when I was laid off (all three times) is that I felt vulnerable, managed by a situation. So the one simple thing I can control is what I do today. Each day I have a survival routine-I get up, have my devotions, go for my two mile walk (or 30 minutes on the eliptical, if it's raining:-), come back and do my core strenthening on the ball, share breakfast time with my husband (my oatmeal does wonders for cholesterol) and read the paper. When you become diligent about your routine, you'll know there's hope and the clouds will go away.

2.  Choose to Live Your Passion. What's your passion? What do you truly get lost in?  There are ways to figure out what your special passion is so that you  can be clearly intentional.  What do I mean by that, well, if you look back into your life and ask the question, "when I was little, what did everyone say that I did well?" Did you perform (come on, Johnney, play the piano for Aunt Helen), did you have a lemonade stand (or sell advice for $1), did you create drawings (clearly an artist in the making)? Fast forward a few years, when you were a teenager, what did you absolutely get lost in? Singing, performing, solving problems - our patterns follow us through our lives. You just need to connect the dots and then either get a job with those ingredients or if you are in a job that pays well and you are kindof stuck, how can you live those passions right within your current company. i.e. I've always loved to teach (my story-Laid Off? Don't Stress! How to Get from Mad to Glad), in any job I've ever been in, I've figured out a way to do things like inservices, orientation, etc. Be creative-when you live your passion, you'll know their's hope for the sunshine.

3.  Find Something Daily to be Thankful for. Think of where we live. America. Yes, things are in a bit of an upheaval right now, but it has been before and it will be again. Before you get out of bed in the morning (your nice warm bed), think of three things you are thankful for. Dana Reynolds  (http://www.sacredimagination.com) call it "Cultivating Gratitude." Isn't that the truth? Plant your own seed and in 21 days it has sprouted (takes that long to create a habit) The rain and sun will help it grow strong.

4. Believe in Yourself and Maintain a Bright Attitude. You were born with special gifts and talents. What differentiates you from everyone else? If you can't come up with anything, ask your friends & family. One of my friends sent out forty e-mails and asked what they thought made her different. She had a great time seeing and believing in herself through their eyes. Another way of seeing and believing in yourself is to write down your accomplishments - big and little. When you can actually see it on paper, it's a real morale booster AND you'll be able to talk about it better when you have to sell yourself in the next interview.

5. Believe in Your Purpose. If you can't see the end of the rainbow - believe that it's there, the rain will stop, the clouds will go away and the sun and the rainbow will be there.When you were young, you had a purpose. Have you gotten distracted from that purpose? Patricia Drain in her book, "What Should I Be When I Grow Up, Now that I'm 40, 50, & 60," describes this as the stone theory. When you throw a rock into the water - the middle is your core purpose and the ripples going out are the distractions that get in your way. Believe in and take that next step and before you know it, you will be back on track. Start today. Really, start today. Do something for just 10 minutes that will help you get back on track.

Are you willing to control your routine, choose your passion, be grateful, get the right attitude and stay on purpose?  It's your choice.  There is a better day out there at the end of your rainbow.  Blessings and Happy New Year.

November 09, 2008

What Would I Do If I Only Had One Month to Live?

In church this morning, the pastor's sermon title was, "What Would You Do If You only Had One Month to Live? Pretty profound question. This question could also be posed in a situation when something difficult comes into our lives like being laid off or having a serious illness or a variety of  catastrophic winds of change blowing through our lives. It gives me pause...., it strips away all the frivolous things we might be doing to keep us busy.

 Are you living your passion? or are you saying, "someday...one day...I'll do ....." Do you even know what your passion is? Pay attention to what makes your heart beat faster, gives you energy, breathes fire into your belly.  You have been shaped with a very unique gift that turns you on. Maybe you are in a job that isn't exactly what you want, but is there something that you could be doing that would fulfill part of that passion? I've always loved to speak, so I began as an educator but later after I was home raising my children, I continued as a leader in my church teaching others how to lead, then later in Corporate America, I found ways to teach through doing inservices. Today I have my own company speaking and coaching people to find their passion and learning ways to bounce back from difficult situation and have found a way to live my dream-My way. Are you surviving or thriving and living your dream. If not now, when?

November 06, 2008

What Should I Be When I Grow Up Now That I've Survived Mid-Life?

Have you ever asked yourself that question? What Should I Be When I Grow Up now that I'm past 40? Year after year, I have continuously asked myself that. Better yet, what does God want me to be when I grow up?

Many of you don't know that I started my professional life as a high school business and physical education teacher and coach. It seemed at that time there were only a couple of  directions a person could go - teaching, nursing, never as adventuresome as a doctor (just for guys) or, God forbid, a woman entrepreneur!! Seems like so long ago, but now I am living my dream job. I'm a woman entrepreneur. I have my own business with four divisions-medical marketing, speaking, writing (my latest book is "Laid Off? Don't Stress! How to Get from Mad to Glad!") cosmetics and now I've come full circle and am coaching people on "What Should I Be When I Grow Up" in their first and second half of their lives. Life has a way of bringing us back to our strengths. What age we discover this really doesn't matter. What does matter is that you and I are doing what we love to do - life is short - why go through each day disliking working or disliking not working.

The true secret is finding your real ingredients  that you need to make you happier and healthier from this day forward. We each have very specific patterns and passions that are unique to us. It is possible, but harder to discover them on your own. That's why an objective coach makes the journey easier. I have always found it difficult to concentrate on me and what I need. It's just so much more fun to focus on "you" and be the catalyst to help "you" be the very best "you" can be.

There are very purposeful questions that you can use to get started on that journey today. My suggestion is to get a journal and be your own historian so that you can look back on it next month, six months or a year down the way. It's amazing to me that when you look back at your answers you see how you change - we're usually too close to the forest to see the trees. Try this just for you Today!

  • Describe the perfect career and lifestyle for you and your family. It doesn't matter if it seems unreal, just let your mind wander and write it down in your journal. What does it feel like? What does it look like? Tell the details of this life.
  • What has been one of your greatest accomplishments so far in your life? Any time in your life - it doesn't even have to be as a grownup. Just scan your years and write it down. How did it make you feel? Who made you feel that way or what made you feel that way?
  • What was the highlight of your life today? Patricia Drain, as many of us did, sat at the table with her family and answered that same question. What a great way to get to know your family. Actually ask them that question and ask them their opinions.

Oprah says, "If you don't know what your passion is, realize that one reason for your existence on earth is to find it." Why not start that journey today no matter what your age.

October 01, 2008

Hurricane Winds that Blow Through our Lives

I've always subscribed to the idea that when normal winds blow through our lives like cars that need extra fixing or stuff that comes up in school that needs to be paid for or you had a tiff with your cubicle mate, we can withstand the gusts. But when gales the size of hurricanes blow through - we really need to have our feet on the ground and have personal systems in place.

Psychologists say that how we respond to the little things in life is how we will respond to the big things in our lives. Did you fly off the handle when someone didn't get their work in on time today? Did you yell at your kid when he spilled milk at the dinner table? Did you wake up and stress over all the things that you didn't get done today? Did you know that you had a choice in each of these situations?

There is a formula that I found that works in every single situation of our lives. The formula is E + R = O. Jack Canfield, in his book, "How to Build Self Esteem," came up with event (E) plus response (R) equals outcome (O). When those life events happen, we don't have a lot of control over them....at first. We usually respond with emotion. After a bit, maybe a couple of weeks, we can choose to have the event dominate our lives or to be in charge ourselves. Either way will affect the outcome.

We have come through a week of gale force winds the size of a hurricane with the biggest drop in stock market history and the smell of fear in the air. No one knows what will happen next. Will the hurricane literally blow our house down? That is the event, now we have a choice, will we have the courage to take charge of our lives, remain calm, put one foot in front of the other and see it through to the other side of this storm. As for me and my family, we've decided to continue our day to day routine, pray for the leaders of this country and trust that the good Lord has something great planned for us today. But I'm in charge of me today! Are you?

September 03, 2008

Patience is Hard When You're Waiting...

Laid_off_cover At our last visit, the CNN crew had just left us and flown off to their next assignment - something about politics in Las Vegas. So now came the waiting. There are so many things to do when you are waiting for something important to air, so many questions. How can I maximize this great exposure for my book, Laid Off? Don't Stress! How to Get from Mad to Glad? If there is a surge in book sales, will I have enough books on hand? Should I order the 2nd edition now? Do I want to change the name of the book to be more inclusive? Do I want to add more chapters and more stories into this 2nd edition? What happens if it airs on CNN while my husband and I are fishing in the East Cape? Should I get a press release ready to send out as soon as it airs? Should I talk to Barnes and Noble and Changing Hands and Borders and...and...and...so many questions. Where do I find out about these things? Who do I ask?

The first thing I did was send out an e-mail asking friends of mine in the National Speakers Association and my toastmasters club, Gilbert 499, and the Arizona Book Publisher's Association to get advice. They were great! Everyone was so helpful and supportive. I highly recommend belonging to associations like these that fit with your own profession - it saves re-inventing the wheel.

One of the things I did right away is add a forward to my book by a very giving guy, Greg Reid, the Millionaire Mentor. Greg and I met in California when we were at an event from my first book I had a chapter in, Seizing Your Success from the Live the LifeSuccess2 You Love series. We got to talking and since he liked my concept of showing successful transitions, he offered to write a forward. I so appreciated it, but my Laid Off book went to press before we got his back from the editor. Besides the 2nd edition would be even better than the first. After getting the story edited, I sent it off to the designer, 1106 Designs in Phoenix. OK, that's all set to go. Now what about books to sell in the mean time. My sister, Bev, agreed to come over and check my e-mails to send out books ordered. What would I ever do without her - my friend and faithful encourager.

Since I had asked Michael Cary from CNN to hold off as long as possible, he did, but in the mean time a well known journalist, Tim Russert, died so everything was on hold anyway. Russert's sudden death was a huge loss to the news community and to the world.

Michael did call and tell me he was grateful that I didn't hound him about the airing of the Laid Off piece. Finally on July 17th, Michael called me and said it was going to air on July 18th - a Friday morning. 7:30 a.m.

Friday morning, I got this call from a cousin in Phoenix who had heard from his mother in North Dakota who had heard from her daughter in North Dakota who heard from another cousin in South Dakota - they had all seen the CNN segment before I had. Just that alone was worth it - isn't the world small? It reminded me of the old telephone game we used to play as children. Another one of our fly fishing buddies had been awake during the night and had seen Gerry and I on CNN and didn't know anything about the piece and called others in the Desert Fly Casters club. To say the least, many people had stumbled upon it and the e-mails started coming.

Yes, publicity like this does sell books. But I was going to ensure more publicity, I sent out 40 press releases to state and local radio and TV stations. The piece was even picked up by channels 5 and 10 in the Phoenix area. I'm still working on maximizing the event - but there are alot of things you can do to move the event into a more financially lucrative event. I've been on talk shows and have received several calls from people who heard the segment and wanted to know how I made it successfully through the lay offs. I'll tell you more about that in the next issue. I can hardly wait - I've just discovered another way to take my business to a whole new level. Stay tuned...,

Kitty Wiemelt, Here's to Finding Your Passion and Living Your Life on Purpose with Gladness.

August 18, 2008

Nitty-Gritty of Process with CNN

Salt_river_evening In my Never Believe It Could Happen post I told you basically about the amazing fact that CNN found me in a sea of a million people. When I talked to Michael the morning after I responded to his first e-mail, he actually interviewed me about my Laid Off? Don't Stress! book for about 45 minutes. He asked me questions like:

  • what was the book about
  • what was the inspiration for the book
  • tell me your story of three lay offs
  • how did you recover
  • what are 3 things to encourage those who are laid off

Of course, since I knew he was calling, I got out my list of questions (and prepared answers) so that I would be ready as possible. He only asked a couple of "my" questions. Since it was my first time at talking to someone from a big network, I had no idea what to expect. I found he was extremely easy to talk to and pretty soon, I was not even worried about being ready, we just talked as friends. I don't know if this is typical; I think I was lucky.

After that first day, Michael said he had to put a proposal together and submit it as a story idea to CNN. He was hoping to get it on Issue #1. I also told him I was going to East Cape for a fly-fishing vacation with Jeff DeBrown of The Reel Baja in three weeks, so if it were going to happen we had to coordinate it around that. No, I was not about to give up a dream fly fishing vacation that we'd planned a year ago.Dorado_50_pounds_june_2008_conventi

I think that was one of the reasons I intrigued him.  I was laid off three times, I decided to re-invent myself and become an entrepreneur at age 58, AND I was an avid fly fisher. Just before my husband retired, I started Winds of Change Consulting on a shoestring with 10 hours a week of marketing consulting with the Desert Pain Institute (DPI), joined NSA as a candidate, and joined Toastmasters in order to build my speaking career and started networking like crazy. It was profitable the very first year. He also liked that 6 years later, my husband Gerry and I were able to take 12 weeks off to fish and travel and I was making more money than I had ever made in Corporate America.

Back to the process...Michael called several times in the next two weeks to ask questions about my work, or about the book, or about times we could get together for the possible shoot. He even asked me if there was an airport in Lakeside near our Airstream so that they could come up and film me fly fishing in the beauty of Northern Arizona. We ditched that idea, the logistics just would be too complicated....He was still waiting to get the OK from CNN.

Finally the week before we were to head down to the Baja, he called me and said they had agreed to air the piece, but it would be on American Morning which starts at 3 a.m. EST. He assured me that CNN replays their pieces several times and then it would go to the Internet, so it would be aired several times. Again I was nervous, but I did what all the pros say to do, I sent him a whole list of questions he might ask (and that I would be prepared to answer:-)

We were leaving on vacation early Wednesday morning. I was working and very busy and had no idea how we could work it all in. They decided that Michael and a camera man he liked to work with would fly out on Monday and start the process - maybe shoot out at the Salt River on Monday and then at Desert Pain on Tuesday morning or even shoot us at the house packing for our big two week fishing trip.(oofta!!) My sister, Bev, and I went out to the Salt River to see if it was feasible - oh, yes, it was gorgeous. What a great backdrop, with the mountains and sun setting. I called the Arizona fish and game to see if they had stocked the river with fish and Salt River Project to see if there would even be enough water to fish. The levels tend to vary greatly in the summer.

The night before they came, Michael finally told me the name of the journalist would be that would interview me. I made the mistake of googling Ted Rowlands - man, if that wouldn't intimidate a person, this guy has been on so many cases i.e. Lacey, OJ Simpson etc. I recognized his voice from all the reporting. There was a saving grace, he came from Wisconsin originally. At least we'd have a lot in common since we'd lived there for twenty years.

You know, one of the things you always think about when going on TV is what to wear. I called my  friend, Mary Kay Ilnitsky from Icon Image and we discussed dress or pant suit, red or black etc. It never hurts to get advice. Well, Michael and Demere showed up at Desert Pain Institute in jeans. Immediately, they put me at ease. Unfortunately, only some of their equipment had come with them so they were running on batteries - we took the outside shots first. Fortunately, they could plug in inside DPI. Of course, I seized the opportunity to tell them all about DPI's all "green" facility and fantastic staff. We proceeded to the ambulatory surgery center to film. No, in this sort of dry run interview, Michael didn't ask me any of the questions that I'd sent him. We just chatted. We even were able to get one of the DPI doctors, Dr. Eric Boyd, in on the shots.

Tuesday morning bright and early, Gerry and I met Michael, Demere and Tom at a gas station on the way out to the Salt River - he had to get a day pass for the river. Of course, we had brought an extra pair of waders along for Ted, and a beautiful rod Gerry had made and a net for all the fish we were going to catch. Demere brought his own waders and out to the middle of the river we all went. Ted did the whole interview in the middle of the river. Gerry only rolled his eyes once when I was telling Ted how important attitude is while going through a lay off and that there is power in laughter through these tough times. I do get a little adamant about that. One of the things I've done since starting my own business is become a Certified Laughter Leader through the World Laughter Tours to add to my humor talks. Laughter is a gift that helps in all situations!! P6030027_2

After the interview, Ted and Gerry went off to learn more about fly fishing. I continued to fish and Demere and I stood in the middle of the river and solved all the problems of the world. When the crew left Mesa, they went to the cute little tea house, the Teeter House in Phoenix to film owner, Lynn Behringer, who also had a transition story in the Laid Off book.

The story of the airing will be the next blog, stop back to see how it all came down.

August 11, 2008

Taking a Risk - Helps You Grow

I'm sitting up in the beautiful North Country enjoying the smell of the pines and the wind blowing through the trees. As I contemplate the winds of change that occur through the day, right now it is sunny and in an hour there will be a shower or maybe a large deluge of rain, and then the sun will emerge again and everything will be on track again.

Each time we take a risk and try something new, we risk the imbalance of normalcy until we get a handle on it. Last week, I started blogging and felt out of my comfort zone. Several of my friends have been experiencing a blogothon - even though it had been on my to do list for a year, I didn't get to it in time. Even though I didn't get in on time, it still inspired me to get off my duff and do it. I'm still feeling my way along, but that's ok, that is how we grow. To allow that growth, we move through successful transitions (we start with an end (in my case, an end to my comfort zone) and move through that area of uncertainty and chaos (for me - learning to blog and twitter and do facebook etc.)then  we come out on the other side having grown and found an exciting new beginning. My book, Laid Off? Don't Stress! How to Get from Mad to Glad! is about growing through those winds of change and making those successful transitions. It is a compilation of 21 stories of people who have moved through changes in their lives and have found them to be the best things that ever happened to them. The book has been dubbed a manual of understanding.

I was reading a story in the Guideposts magazine this morning about an oncology nurse and she made the statement that "Hope is a discipline. It is a decision." The underlying factor in moving through these changes is hope. Your decision! Will you take the risk? Will you allow yourself to move forward and grow? These wonderful fellow NSAers have taken a risk and been part of a blogothon. Check them out.

Jackie Dishner
http://bikewithjackie.blogspot.com
http://www.thephoenixtraveler.com

Susan Ratliff
www.blingmybooth.com

Andrea Beaulieu

http://www.ConspiracyOfLove.net

Mimi Meredith

http://www.thegoodnessgrows.com

Beth Terry

http://www.CorporateCowgirl.com

Jean McFarland

http://www.bulliesamongus.blogspot.com

Vickie Mullins
http://mullinscreative.blogspot.com

http://vickiemullins.wordpress.com

Michelle May
http://blogs.eastvalleytribune.com/consumed/

Arlene Rosenberg
http://www.leadingachievers.com

Stanley Bronstein

http://stanleybronstein.com

Suzanne Holman
http://www.LessonsforYourMillionDollarLife.com

Bonnie Mattick

http://www.yourbusinessdetective.com

August 06, 2008

Would Never Believe It Could Happen....

P6100018_2 There I was, just coming off of a wonderful weekend with a Casting for Recovery retreat where we had the privilege of teaching 14 breast cancer survivors how to fly fish. It was the first 110 degree day in Phoenix and I had been out marketing all day, with a cold, no less. Figured I'd quick check my e-mails since I'd been gone for 5 days and low and behold, I had an e-mail from CNN. Some Michael Cary guy had written me and said that CNN was looking for a positive look at lay offs and he'd found my book, "Laid Off? Don't Stress! How to Get from Mad to Glad." Michael Carey isn't just any guy, he's the Senior Producer for the Western Region for CNN and one of the nicest guys to work with. I sent him back an e-mail telling him that being laid off was the best thing that could ever have happened to me and that I am now doing exactly what I want to do. However!!! I didn't say "I am now doing," I said I am not doing what I want to - immediately after I sent the e-mail, I got a call from Michael and he said, "Now, let me get this straight. You are not doing what you want.." Well, in my sick foggy mind, I had made an error in typing and he just had to call and figure this out. I felt badly, but on the phone I still was out of character and said I was sorry, but all I wanted to do was go to bed, I was not feeling well. Can you believe it? A guy from a huge network calls me and wants to interview me and I told him I was sick and going to bed!!

Michael called me the next morning and in the coming month we talked back and forth and finally, CNN agreed to his proposal. After much maneuvering, CNN sent a crew out to film and interview me about my present situation of doing exactly what I want to do..fly fish, vacation, and oh, yes, work. But someone once said that if you find work that feeds your passion, you'll never have to work another day in your life. Well, that's true. I started Winds of Change Consulting and have the privilege of representing Desert Pain Institute; I have Windmill Publishing,I have a speaking business and I get to play with cosmetics in my SeneGence business. Yes, life is good. The CNN team that came out actually put on waders and did part of the interview in the Salt River. The team below is Michael Cary, Demere (photographer) and Ted Rowlands, Journalist. Best people ever. My husband even worked with Ted on fly fishing after the shoot.CNN segment on Life After Layoff by Ted Rowlands